purity myth?

Two very opposing voices.  Why does one have so many smiling faces and the others have a permanent scowl?

http://www.realitycheckla.org

http://feministing.com/

going into marriage with a clear mind

An interesting study on the effects of oxytocin on mammals.  Makes a good argument against using pre-marital sex as a "test" before marriage.  http://www.oxytocin.org/oxy/wide.html  (This same page has an interesting link for "When Is It Best To Take Crack Cocaine?"  http://www.cocaine.org/)

Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse (http://ruthinstitute.org/) has written a book on the same subject you might want to check out:  "SMART SEX Finding Life Long Love in a Hook Up World"  http://jennifer-roback-morse.com/pages/catalog.html#